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10 Dec 2024
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How to keep your bones strong—and even make them stronger

 

Our 206 bones do more than just keep us standing, walking, and singing through life. They also protect our organs, harbor bone marrow, and store minerals such as phosphorus and calcium. But just like your muscles, bones require maintenance work. Here’s how to keep them healthy for the long run.

Human bones don’t come ready at full strength. Instead, our bone density starts increasing shortly after birth and continues until we are about 30 years old. After that it plateaus until our 40s, when our skeleton begins to whither. For men, this process is a gradual one. For women, however, this occurs rapidly after menopause. If too much bone is lost, osteoporosis—a chronic disease that causes the body’s framework to become soft and brittle—can occur, and increase a person’s risk of bone fractures.

In the US, osteoporosis is responsible for more hospitalizations than heart attacks, strokes, and breast cancer combined. Invasive operations related to fractures, such as hip surgery, cause medical complications in older people. Nearly 20 percent of those on Medicare hospitalized a week after their fracture dies within a year.

“Osteoporosis is concerning because it’s chronic fracturing. Each break could drastically change your quality of life,” said Kyle Jeray, the chairman of the Department of Orthopedics at Prisma Health, a not-for-profit clinic in Greenville, South Carolina. “You may never be able to live on your own. You may become dependent on [a] walker. It’s a loss of independence.”

Because bone health declines later in life, the American Orthopedic Association recommends women 65 and older as well as men older than 70 should ask their primary care doctors for an osteoporosis evaluation. Those with a risk factor or a history of a fracture after the age of 50, regardless of the cause, should also be evaluated. Risk factors include severely low body weight, steroid use, rheumatoid arthritis, and other chronic diseases. For those concerned about osteoporosis, online risk assessment tests can be a helpful resource.

“It is a silent disease until it’s not. People don’t realize they have osteoporosis until they break something,” said Paul Anderson, the Vice Chair for Own the Bone, an American Orthopedic Association committee that encourages surgeons to take more ownership in the care of osteoporosis patients. “That is why we stress asking for evaluations.”

Half our body’s total calcium stores in women and two-thirds in men are made during puberty. This makes bone density difficult to rebuild past our 20s especially in women. But following a healthy, well-rounded diet can help maintain our skeleton’s strength. You’ve probably been told to drink milk for strong, healthy bones since you were little, and Anderson agrees. Foods like milk, cheese, kale, and sardines are rich in calcium—the building block of bones. Without adequate calcium, your body begins leaching it from the bone for other essential uses like heart and muscle functioning. That’s why the FDA recommends consuming between 1000 to 1200 milligrams of this vital mineral daily. Post-menopausal women and those with dairy allergies or dietary restrictions like veganism should be even more conscious of their calcium intake.

Proper Vitamin D intake is also crucial to a calcium-rich diet. The vitamin helps the gut absorb calcium and helps the kidneys break down and reabsorb calcium that would otherwise be excreted through our urinary tracts. Without it, this bone-building mineral would pass right through our bodies. Vitamin D is rarely found naturally in food, so most people soak it up through sunlight. Those living in northern latitudes where sunlight is scarce such as Chicago, the Dakotas, or Canada can turn to vitamin D-fortified foods like cereal and milk. Whether it’s obtained by basking in the sun’s rays or enjoying an ice-cold glass of milk, the FDA recommends about 800 to 1,000 international units of vitamin D daily.

However, quantity is just as important as quality when it comes to our diet. Without proper caloric intake—especially in our adolescent years—our body is unable to build bone mass.

“You can eat the right amount of calcium and vitamin D and take supplements, but if you are not taking in the proper amount of fuel you can still potentially lose bone mass,” says Jennifer Maynard, a family physician and sports medicine specialist at the Mayo Clinic’s Jacksonville, Florida campus.

This can put people, such as those with a history of eating disorders, at an increased risk of osteoporosis. Think of it like a savings account. Each year of our youth, we invest a bit in our bone bank so that as we age and begin to lose bone, we have a hefty reserve to tap into.

Here’s the other key component to good bone health: exercise, in any form. Bones, like muscles, respond to stress. As the saying goes, if you don’t use it, you lose it. When we don’t actively load our skeletons, calcium begins to leak from bones. Thankfully, just 20 minutes of weight-bearing exercises a day like walking or lifting weights can help maintain or even increase bone mass (though increases are likely minimal) according to Anderson.

Other than a healthy diet and exercise regimen, avoiding harmful toxins is essential for overall bone health. Anderson claims smoking tobacco causes calcium to escape via our urinary tract. It also causes an increase in cortisol, a hormone that’s known to breakdown bone. Tobacco isn’t the only toxin that can influence bone health; excess alcohol intake—defined as more than three standard drinks a day—is associated with chronic liver disease, a precursor to osteoporosis.

Even if you have osteoporosis, there are measures you can follow to avoid fractures. The National Osteoporosis Foundation found that 50 percent of repeat fractures could have been avoided.

Most fractures associated with mortality occur when older people, who have less stable muscles and bones, experience a bad fall. That is why Anderson recommends enrolling in a community-based fall prevention program. These programs focus on balancing exercises and advise participants on how to rearrange household furniture to prevent trips. For those a bit more adventurous, the CDC recommends Tai Chi as a great way to improve balance.

For serious cases of osteoporosis, medications such as bisphosphonates and anabolic agents can be prescribed. Bisphosphonates reduce the risk of fractures between 50 and 70 percent by stopping cells called osteoclasts from breaking down bone mass. Meanwhile, anabolic agents actually energize osteoblasts, the cells responsible for the construction of our skeletal framework.

Doctors and researchers are also trying to better understand the role genetics plays in our chances of developing osteoporosis, says Laura Bruce, a physician at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas who works with orthopedic patients. “[That knowledge] will only help us provide patients with more information.”

For now, getting in those extra steps or reps and getting regular checkups will help keep your bones strong as you age.

 

 

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03 Dec 2024
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Tips To Remain Open To Synchronistic Opportunity

We are spiritual beings having a physical experience. The purpose of incarnating is simply to give us the unique experiences we need for our progressive evolution toward perfection. Within each of our Earthly experiences, there are important lessons we’ve chosen to learn. On a subconscious level, we are attracting the people and experiences that will teach us these lessons.

You can heighten your awareness to help you recognize and embrace the synchronistic opportunities that are always presenting themselves in the form of people, places and events around you. First of all, commit to engaging in the reality that surrounds you, which might also mean turning off devices. You must also make an effort to disengage from the flurry of thoughts swirling through your head that distract you from fully appreciating your surroundings. A powerful practice I use is to say out loud or in my head, “Moment!” This immediately draws my attention back into the present, and I can more effectively engage with the world around me.

A scientific concept that reinforces the importance of our engagement with others is the quantum theory of entanglement. This theory states that whenever we exchange energy with another living being, that energetic connection will remain intact for all time. This means that every interaction you have with another living being will remain forever imprinted on both of you.

With this in mind, ask yourself: “What type of karmic imprint do I want to leave on myself and others throughout the day?” and “How can I improve the quality of the energetic connections I am making?”

Consider that our paths are predestined. We have come here on Earth to learn the life lessons that will allow us to progress on our paths. As such, we naturally create the experiences that are most likely to help us learn and grow. We attract the people, places and things that are most conducive to our soul’s evolution. Spiritual guides may also place certain people in our path to assist us on our journey. The key to recognizing these people and places as opportunities to learn and grow is to continually search for the deeper meaning of our interactions with them.

We have to ask ourselves questions like, “Why have I been placed in this particular location at this particular time, and how is this situation conducive to my growth?” We also have to explore relationships on a deeper level by asking ourselves, “Why have I been connected with this person and how can we benefit each other?” and “What lessons can we learn from each other?” By making a sincere effort to uncover the meaning behind our everyday experiences and interactions, we can reveal their higher purpose and learn to go with the flow.

Here are three powerful ways to remain open to the synchronistic flow of life’s stream:

  1. Use the practice of saying, “Moment!” whenever you notice that you have become disconnected from the present moment.
  2. Be aware of the karmic imprint you are leaving on yourself and others with every reaction and interaction.
  3. Recognize the people, places and things you have attracted into your life all represent opportunities to learn the lessons that are most conducive to your evolutionary path.

After I began to recognize the divinity within the experiences of my life, I developed a strong faith that everything happens just as it should and for a good reason. Trusting in the divine plan has made me feel much more at peace with the events that unfold around me. I know I have projected these experiences in order to learn the lessons I need for my soul’s evolution and refinement.

Now that I am more capable of taming my mind and controlling the emotions of fear, anger and resentment, I am not experiencing those emotions reflected back to me. As a result, I naturally create more harmony and encounter less difficulty. This perspective has made my life so much smoother and more enjoyable. I’ve also become acutely aware that as I project compassion and kindness, these divine traits are reflected back to me.

This is true across the board and rarely does it fail me. When it does, I am able to see the symbolic nature of the experience and then identify my own personal emotions that, left unguarded, created conflict. Negative feelings, or trapped emotions, that still need my attention and repair are exposed. From this perspective, I am then grateful for the conflict because it revealed lessons I still need to learn. I can commit to learning those important life lessons right then and there, and avoid re-creating another experience just like it!

It’s really that easy. By opening yourself up to the world around you in this way, you are opening to spirit. Aligned with spirit, magical synchronicities will unfold as you meet opportunity at every intersection. The power is in the present moment.

 

 

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30 Nov 2024
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Multitasking is bad for our well-being – experts explain what it does to our brains and how to stop

 

 

Put down that endless to-do list and step away from the organisational apps because multitasking is officially bad for your wellbeing.

We’re all busy and guilty of juggling too many important things at once – especially now, in the run up to Christmas. It’s not uncommon for me to be attempting to do at least five things at once, with varying degrees of success. Just last week, I dropped one of the many balls I’d been juggling and ended up in a teary heap after the school run; clearly, multitasking isn’t working for me.

There’s evidence to support my theory that multitasking is actually making life more difficult for us all. Here’s the lowdown on why you shouldn’t feel bad for doing one thing at a time.

Why multitasking doesn’t work

In our fast-paced, hectic lives, we’re all guilty of trying to do many different things at the same time. In fact, with a focus on productivity and output, it’s pretty much #LifeGoals to have a million things on the go.

But neuroscience disagrees. “For the vast majority of people and situations, when we think we are multitasking, we are most likely to be attention switching instead,” explains neurologist Dr Faye Begeti, aka @the_braindoctor. “Rather than doing two tasks simultaneously, we are instead quickly switching our attention from one to another very rapidly.⁠”

The result is reduced, rather than improved performance.

It’s not effective

“Rather than being productive, multitasking is actually counterproductive and efficiency is much reduced,” warns Begeti. “In addition to the reduced time efficiency, it takes greater effort to continuously attention-switch than it does to complete tasks sequentially, as it increases load on our working memory which is a finite resource and that extra cognitive load may be very mentally draining.”

And there’s more bad news…

You’re not as good at it as you think you are

“Multitasking has been the subject of a lot of research, with practically universal agreement that it’s an inefficient process for our brain,” says Begeti. “Research shows that the perception of ability to multitask was highly inflated, with significantly more participants estimating that their multitasking ability was above average. This indicates that we have an inflated perception of our ability to multitask.”

Different tasks use different parts of our brains

“Complex tasks rely on a part of the brain called the prefrontal cortex,” explains Begeti. “It’s simply not possible to do complex tasks concurrently, so our brain switches between them instead.”

Simple, habitual tasks, however, can be completed simultaneously, which is why it’s perfectly possible to be drinking your morning latte while walking to work chatting to a friend. So it’s important to think about exactly what it is you’re trying to achieve when you’re feeling swamped.

What about media multitasking? 

If you’re one of those people who can’t concentrate on a TV show without also scrolling on your phone, or you’re guilty of checking social media every five minutes while you’re working, you’ll be interested to read (if you can focus for long enough) that you’re not alone.

“Media multitasking is a specific type of multitasking where two types of media are used simultaneously,” explains Begeti. “Studies show that those who are heavy media multitaskers perform at the same level as light media multitaskers when no other distractions are present,” she says, “However, when distractions are introduced, heavy media multitaskers are unable to ignore them and their performance worsens. It then continues to worsen as more distractions are introduced.”

So, you may think you’re concentrating on The Crown, but googling Jonny Lee Miller at the same time is distracting you.

What can we do instead? 

Try the exact opposite: monotasking. “It’s OK to give our brains some space in an increasingly demanding world,” advises Begeti. “Having time to think can lead to new ideas and connections – that’s why you can have great ideas in the shower.”

It’s a form of mindfulness

Ever feel guilty that you’re not making time for mindfulness and meditation? There’s good news.

“Singletasking can also be a form of mindfulness,” says Begeti. “For example, the other day I was folding up baby laundry, a daily occurrence for me currently due to a very vomitty baby, and it was incredible to notice how small everything was and enjoy being present in the moment of looking after a tiny human, who won’t be so tiny forever. It was an experience that would have passed me by if my attention was elsewhere.”

Two birds, one stone.

When and how to multitask  

That’s not to say that we can’t ever do more than one thing at a time; there are specific scenarios where multitasking is relatively simple for our brains. Begeti advises there are specific criteria for safe multitasking.

When it makes a task more enjoyable

Enjoy listening to a podcast whilst cleaning the house? Go right ahead. “I personally most commonly multitask by listening to podcasts while I’m doing household chores,” says Begeti. “While I don’t get as much out of what I’m listening to and my cleaning speed is likely reduced, I find it’s worth it to make monotonous tasks more enjoyable.

When performance is not important

“Multitasking will always impair performance,” advises Begeti, “Just because we are able to multitask, it doesn’t mean that we should.” But if no one is going to care if the task you’re busy with isn’t done perfectly, then it’s OK to let your mind wander to other jobs.

When a task is straightforward and repetitive 

Frequently tasks such as household chores can be carried out using the habitual part of our brains, so we’re essentially on autopilot, therefore not putting undue stress on our grey matter.

When our job absolutely requires it

Emergency workers such as doctors and firefighters clearly need to be able to think fast. “⁠Some jobs require us to multitask or, more accurately, attention-switch, where we flick our attention between multiple things,” explains Begeti. “This is definitely the case in my day job where I manage multiple patients and constantly prioritise according to urgency. That being said, while this is important in dealing with emergencies, a complex diagnosis will still necessitate giving the patient my undivided attention.”

Put simply, the majority of us could do with less attention-switching behaviour and more monotasking. Something to bear in mind over the festive season, and beyond – if only for your brain’s sake.

 

 

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26 Nov 2024
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What’s a twin flame, exactly? And how is it different from a soulmate?

 

A ‘twin flame’ doesn’t always refer to a romantic relationship, but it’s a term that refers to people that share something bigger. If you’ve ever met someone whom you instantly connect to, as if you were always destined to meet, even if you’re unsure quite why, they may be your twin flame.

Twin flame relationships tend to be intense—it’s someone with whom you have a profound spiritual connection to, with traits often compared to soul mates. While both describe a life-changing relationship, the two concepts are described as being entirely different.

The term ‘twin flame’ was first coined in the ’70s by Elizabeth Clare Prophet, the leader and founder of an international New Age religious organisation called The Church Universal and Triumphant (CUT). She also published the book Soul Mates and Twin Flames: The Spiritual Dimension of Love and Relationships.

However, the concept can be traced to the fifth century BC. According to Greek mythology, humans originally had a head with two faces, two pairs of arms and two pairs of legs. However, Zeus feared their power and split them into two separate parts. The pair spends their lives in search of their other half: their twin flame.

So what, exactly, does the term twin flame mean? And, perhaps, more importantly, how do you know when you’ve found yours?

What is a twin flame?

The concept of a perfect, destined partner is certainly a nice one. But what does it actually mean?

According to astrologer Patty Kamson, it’s a lot like what it sounds like. “Imagine meeting someone who feels like they are your soul’s mirror,” she says. “Someone who reflects your deepest self, lights up your spirit and challenges you like no one else. That’s a twin flame.”

However, a twin flame is not exactly a soulmate. “Unlike soulmates, who come into your life to support and grow with you (and yes, you can have more than one soulmate), a twin flame is the person who shares your soul,” she says. “It’s like two halves of the same whole—two flames burning from the same spark. The connection is intense and can be as tumultuous as it is transformative.”

Kamson points to Megan Fox and Machine Gun Kelly as an example. The pair have spoken about their twin flame connection in the past. Kamson sums up, “It’s that electric feeling of being deeply understood, yet constantly pushed to grow. Meeting your twin flame isn’t about finding someone who completes you, but rather, someone who pushes you to evolve into your best self.”

Can you have more than one twin flame?

Although we can all have plenty of wonderful connections in our lives, you can only have one true twin flame, according to the theory. “It’s often believed that a twin flame is your soul’s other half, making the connection rare and uniquely special,” says Kamson.

Sometimes, we may never meet our twin flame but we can still find a soulmate. “A soulmate brings deep support, love and companionship, often arriving when you need them most,” she says. “Soulmates can come in the form of friends, partners or even family members, and they’re there to share in your journey, offering comfort and connection without necessarily challenging you to the core the way a twin flame does.”

How do you know when you have met your twin flame?

Recognising your twin flame isn’t as simple as swiping right on a dating app. “It’s not just about chemistry or attraction, it’s a soul-level connection that’s pretty unmistakable,” says Kamson.

These are the signs to look out for:

  1. Instant recognition: When you meet your twin flame, it feels like you’ve known them forever, even if you just met. The connection is instant, deep and sometimes overwhelming. It’s as if your soul recognises them before your mind even catches up. Ever lock eyes with someone and feel like, “Wait… do I know you?” That’s the Twin Flame vibe.
  2. Intense magnetic pull: You can’t stay away from each other, even if you try. It’s like a gravitational pull between your energies—whether you’re together or apart, you feel each other’s presence.
  3. Emotional rollercoaster: Buckle up, because twin flame relationships are not for the faint of heart. The highs are incredible, but the lows can be just as intense. Your twin flame will challenge you to face your deepest insecurities and fears, and that’s part of the growth. One moment, you feel like you’re on top of the world; the next, you’re questioning everything. It’s all part of the process of self-discovery and healing.
  4. The mirror effect: Your twin flame reflects both your light and your shadow. They show you parts of yourself that you didn’t even realise existed—both the beautiful and the messy. It’s like having a mirror held up to your soul. This can feel both exhilarating and confronting because it forces you to see and heal the parts of yourself you’ve been avoiding. If you’ve ever had someone trigger you in a way no one else could, you might be dealing with twin flame energy.
  5. Push and pull dynamic: Twin flame relationships often have a runner and chaser dynamic. One person might feel overwhelmed and pull away, while the other feels an intense need to reconnect. This push and pull can be frustrating, but it’s a sign that both individuals are going through personal growth. It’s like a dance, with each person taking turns leading and following as they evolve.

What are the dangers of a twin flame relationship?

As powerful as this connection is, it can come with its own set of challenges. Sometimes, you might not actually be compatible with your twin flame. The pressure to make it work can be immense and you might end up fighting for a relationship that isn’t actually good for you in the long run.

How to deal with a breakup with your twin flame

Yes, sometimes, you and your twin flame may not stay together. The heartbreak of this breakup can feel almost impossible to deal with. “It can feel like part of your soul has been ripped open, and moving on feels impossible,” Kamson says. “But here’s the thing—twin flame breakups, while painful, are often part of the journey.”

Here’s how she recommends managing the transition.

  1. Honour the pain but see the growth: The pain is real, but it’s also an opportunity for massive growth. The separation allows both people to heal, learn and evolve individually. It’s important to honour the emotions that come with the breakup, but also recognise the lessons and personal transformation it’s pushing you toward. This isn’t just a breakup; it’s a soul-level transformation.
  2. Lean into self-care: After a twin flame breakup, your energy might feel drained and your emotions all over the place. This is the time to lean into self-care like never before. Surround yourself with people who love and support you, and focus on activities that ground you. Meditation, journaling and spending time in nature can help you reconnect with yourself.
  3. Accept that separation might be temporary: Twin flames often go through cycles of separation and reunion. Just because you’re apart now doesn’t mean it’s the end forever. Sometimes the separation is necessary for each person to grow and heal before coming back together. And sometimes, the separation is permanent, but that doesn’t mean the love or the connection wasn’t real. Trust the process and know that whatever happens is part of your soul’s journey.
  4. Focus on your own evolution: The best way to move forward from a twin flame breakup is to focus on your own growth. What did this relationship teach you about yourself? How can you use that wisdom to evolve into the next version of yourself? Remember, the whole point of a twin flame connection is personal growth and awakening. It’s not just about the relationship—it’s about you.

 

 

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