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13 Sep 2019
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5 Holistic Ways to Reduce Stress

 

Stress in our modern society is, unfortunately, very common—especially as so many of us try to juggle a career, parenting, and other responsibilities. And in the U.S., it seems to be getting worse with each new generation. According to an American Psychological Association (APA) Stress in America survey, Millennials report feeling more stressed than Baby Boomers, Generation X, and other older adults.

 

No matter your age, chronic stress may tempt you to take anti-anxiety medication. But before you decide to go that route, know there are many natural ways to reduce stress that don’t require a prescription.

 

Here are five things you can do to ease your stress level today.

 

  1. Listen to Your Favorite Playlist

It’s no secret that listening to soothing music can bring your stress level and blood pressure down rapidly, but what’s interesting is that it may also help prevent it in the first place. A study found that women who listened to music before being exposed to a stressful situation recovered from the stress-inducing incident more quickly.

 

And it’s not just slow music that can alleviate stress. Whatever you’re into jazz, disco, rock, or ’80s pop, turning up your favorite tunes and dancing along is a great way to forget about your worries and blow off some steam.

 

  1. Meditate

Meditation is a great way to combat stress. Just sitting or lying down and focusing on your breathing forces you to be in the present moment, so you’re not worrying about the past or future. You can even retreat to your car during your lunch hour to grab some peaceful time for yourself. If quieting your thoughts is challenging for you, try a guided meditation online. They are often set to soothing music and will help you visualize pleasing situations.

 

Researchers at Georgetown University Medical Center discovered that people who practiced mindfulness meditation had sharply reduced stress-hormone and inflammatory responses to a stressful situation. Practicing meditation at bedtime can also help you drift off into more peaceful sleep.

 

  1. Get Enough Quality Sleep

Stress affects your sleep quality, and vice versa. When you’re stressed out, you may have a difficult time falling asleep and staying asleep through the night. And not getting enough zzzzzs can make you feel more stressed and just cranky in general.

 

Try to end the sleep and stress cycle by doing what you can to bring down stress levels before bedtime. You can try meditation, reading, doing some yoga poses, and enjoying a healthy snack that will help you relax.

 

  1. Tickle Your Funny Bone

Laughter really is the best medicine, according to the Mayo Clinic. Laughing at something you genuinely find funny relieves stress immediately and can help bring down your heart rate and blood pressure. And the more you can find humor every day, the better your health gets: long-term effects from laughing include an improved mood and immune system.

 

So watch your favorite funny clips online or a comedy movie to stop stress in its tracks.

 

  1. Create Something

A study found that making art drastically reduces levels of cortisol—the stress hormone—in the body. Creative activities help take your mind off whatever is bothering you. Creating any kind of art also helps improve mental health, no matter what your skill level. So draw, paint, knit, make a scrapbook, or anything else and feel your stress melt away.

 

Don’t Let Stress Control You

As you can see, there are many holistic methods to help you manage your stress. Try some of these and check out our latest health and wellness posts for more tips on how to feel at peace and live your best life every day.

 

About the Author: Ascension Lifestyle Contributor Krista Harper

Krista Harper is a freelance writer and yoga instructor in Southern California. She regularly covers lifestyle, mental health, and nutrition topics and has a passion for helping people create balance in their lives.


08 Sep 2019
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How to Live Forever

 

“You must go through the way in which you are not.


And what you do not know is the only thing you know


And what you own is what you do not own


And where you are is where you are not.”

 

~ T.S. Eliot, excerpt from Four Quartets

 

 

When I began deleting my personal history, as Paulo Coehlo describes in The Zahir, it was the most joyous and bizarre experience of my life: I was simultaneously aware of who I was and who I was not, and 3D appeared both silly and sublime. It was expansive, akin to the seatbelt sign blinking off in flight as the Captain announces, “You’re now free to move about the cabin.”

Similarly: In college I listened to Woody Allen’s amusing audiobook Without Feathers. The title refers to the Emily Dickinson poem, “‘Hope’ Is the Thing With Feathers”.

Living Without “Hope”

The idea of “giving up hope” is as intriguing as stepping outside our conditioned responses. The day before the U.S. World Trade Center attacks in 2001, I’d finished reading Beyond Prophecies and Predictions: Everyone’s Guide to the Coming Changes by Moira Timms, and felt suffused with a calm knowing, a sense that something was about to happen. As 9-1-1 unfolded I sent out a global message contrary to popular reaction, and was castigated as well as thanked. (Email me if you’d like a copy of This IS A Test.)

In this era beyond prophecy, how do we transcend hope, transcend history, alter how we might once have responded, and simply observe our unfolding? How can we begin to live fully in the moment, as what one healer calls, “a constant stream of consciousness”?

We begin by enlarging the lens from microscope to kaleidoscope, as compassionate trickster Caroline Casey illustrates: “We are remembering our true selves, our destiny, our role in the Dynamic Mystery Play. You know how sometimes people ask that harumphitudinous question, ‘Who do you think you are?’ We reframe: ‘Hoo-Doo! You think! You Are!'”

This is how we morph into “forever beings” says thought leader Soleira Green. “Forever beings are not trapped by history, by past mistakes, learning, cultural influences, etc. Freedom isn’t a concept since there is nothing but complete and utter freedom on every level, available all the time… A forever being lives within limitless possibility, seeking change and creation constantly and always. This re-orients us to the ever streaming NEW and not to the static past.”

In her Quantum Awakening newsletter, Gillian Macbeth Louthan reminds, “It takes more molecules to create anger than it does a joy. It takes more molecules to hold disease than it does to hold love. All that is Holy is light and fluffy with no expiration date.”

Without “hope,” without history, we’re closer to our true nature than ever before. Think of it this way: if you “lose control,” you’re free. And you have everything.

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© Copyright 2013-2019 Amara Rose. All rights reserved.

 

About the author:

Amara Rose is a metaphysical “midwife” for our global rebirth. She offers personal and business guidance, content creation, e-courses, and a CD/mp3 to accelerate your evolutionary journey. Learn more at LiveYourLight.com, where you can also subscribe to her inspirational e-newsletter, What Shines.


17 Jul 2019
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Can Meditation Improve Your Sleep?

Meditation and Sleep

A 2015 study from the Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA) concluded that mindfulness meditation helped improve sleep quality among older adults with moderate sleep disturbances. 49 participants whose with an average age of 66 were split into two groups. Half of the group was taught mindfulness meditation, and the other half was taught sleep education. Both groups met 6 times, once a week for two hours. The mindfulness meditation group showed significant improvement relative to the sleep education group regarding insomnia symptoms, depression symptoms, and daytime fatigue.



What is Mindfulness Meditation?

The Mindfulness Meditation program used in the JAMA study is from the UCLA Mindful Awareness Center (MARC), whose purpose is to “foster mindful awareness across the lifespan through education and research to promote well-being and more compassionate society.” MARC’s website defined mindfulness as “Paying attention to present moment experiences with openness, curiosity, and a willingness to be with what is. It is an excellent antidote to the stresses of modern times. It invites us to stop, breathe, observe, and connect with one’s inner experience. There are many ways to bring mindfulness into one’s life, such as meditation, yoga, art, or time in nature. Mindfulness can be trained systematically, and can be implemented in daily life, by people of any age, profession or background.”

Their program isn’t just seated meditation but includes mindful eating and mindful movement. Participants started with a 5-minute session, and gradually worked their way to 20-minute sessions.


How to Practice Mindfulness Meditation

There are many ways to practice mindfulness. Many meditation teachers recommend practicing both seated and moving meditations.

Seated Meditation

Here are some steps to practice mindfulness in a seated meditation:

  1. Find a place that is quiet and without distraction.
  2. Sit cross-legged, on your shins, or seated on a bed or chair with spine erect. Place the backs of your hands on your thighs so your palms are up.
  3. Breathe in for a count of 10, hold your breath for 10, and exhale for 10. Repeat that 5 times.
  4. Breathe in and tense your entire body for a few seconds, then relax and exhale quickly. Repeat 5 times.
  5. Let your breath flow in and out without controlling it, and spend some time feeling a sense of relaxation. If you feel a tension in any body part, you can tense and relax that area and try to consciously relax it.
  6. Watch your breath without controlling it. Let go of any thoughts and feelings that come up.  It’s a habit to think about the past, the future, what you have to do, to worry, to fear; remind yourself that this is your break from the normal mental routine. When any thoughts or feelings arise, just go back to watching your breath and feeling that sense of calmness.

It’s easiest to start with just a few minutes of practice and gradually increase the amount of time. Understand that some days may feel very peaceful and other days will feel like mental warfare. Over time as you build the habit it will get easier.

Moving Meditation

Moving meditation is practicing mindfulness while doing many activities. Many people use martial arts such as Tai Chi as a form of moving meditation, but you could practice mindfulness while driving, washing the dishes, doing yoga, dancing, or walking.

Here are some steps for practicing mindfulness while driving:

  1. Turn off the radio, or turn on some calming music.
  2. Start by taking a few deep breaths and let go of any tension in your body.
  3. Practice being aware of all of the different components of driving without thinking about or feeling any emotions. Notice your grip on the steering wheel, the pressure you put on the brake and accelerator, and be aware of where you are on the road.
  4. If any thoughts or feelings come up, just go back to focusing on the practice of driving. Don’t hurry, enjoy the present moment, and keep yourself in a relaxed and aware state.

Many mindfulness practitioners find it helpful to practice both seated and moving meditations. If you experience a lot of stress and anxiety throughout the day, you may find it difficult to slow your mind down at night. But if you had practiced some relaxation and mindfulness during the day, it will be easier to get into a state of calmness when you sit to practice meditation.

For more ways to practice mindfulness, visit the MARC website.


Neuroplasticity

The term “Neuronal plasticity” was first used in the early 1900s by Santiago Ramon y Cajal, a Spanish neuroscientist and pathologist. Neuroplasticity was first used by Polish neuroscientist Jerzy Konorski in 1948 to describe changes in the neuronal structures that make up our brains. An easy way to understand it is that certain activities can “rewire” your brain.

In an article published by the National Institutes of Health entitled “Buddha’s Brain: Neuroplasticity and Meditation,” researchers explain “Over the course of meditating for tens of thousands of hours, the long-term practitioners had actually altered the structure and function of their brains.” Researchers used functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) and measured hemodynamic changes to study the brains of experienced meditators.

How Your Genes Respond to Meditation

Harvard University doctor Herbert Benson first coined the term “relaxation response”  (RR). He was one of the early medical pioneers to write about the benefits of meditation, noting the relaxation response was recognized by decreased oxygen consumption, increased exhaled nitric oxide, and reduced psychological distress. He wrote about meditation reducing anxiety, depression, and insomnia, and he said it also leads to genetic changes. Benson, the author of The Relaxation Response and founder of the Benson-Henry Institute for Mind Body Medicine and Massachusetts General Hospital, claims that the relaxation response  is “Effective with virtually all diseases with a stress component.”

Dr. Benson explains further in a Washington Post article, “What we have found is that when you evoke the relaxation response, the very genes that are turned on or off by stress are turned the other way. The mind can actively turn on and turn off genes. The mind is not separated from the body.”

Another study published by the National Institutes of Health found that people subjects who meditated for 8 weeks had an increased change of expression of genes that control inflammation, circadian rhythms, and glucose metabolism.

Can Mediation Help you?

Meditation can be an effective way to help increase the amount of restful sleep you get every night. As with any skill it takes practice, so don’t expect amazing results right from the beginning. Start with just a couple minutes twice per day, and gradually add more time. If you find your mind wandering, you can reduce the time to get a more focused practice.

And don’t expect meditation to fix your sleep issues. You may be breaking some of the basic rules of getting good sleep. Learn the basics from top experts of good sleep hygiene to find out what you are doing that’s preventing you from getting to sleep, staying asleep, and/or waking up refreshed.

About the Author: Aaron Karns

Aaron Karns

Director of Communications | Startsleeping.org


07 Jul 2019
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Mercury Retrograde July 7th

     . . . 
     The work
     of my heart
     is the work of the world’s heart.
     There is no other art.
 
                              ~Alison Luterman
 
Cancer New Moon eclipsing the Sun @ 10 degrees
2:16 PM CDT
Tuesday, July 2nd
 
Mercury goes retrograde @ 4 degrees Leo & conjunct Mars
6:15 PM CDT
Sunday, July 7th
Please remember not to stereotype yourself or anyone else based on what I observe about the sign (constellation) Cancer. This is a column about pure Cancerian energy, not about the Cancer found in someone’s birth chart.
Shadows abound this week. The moon moves between the earth and the Sun this afternoon, creating a portal into emotional strengths and shadows. Additionally, we are moving through the shadow of communicative Mercury as it slows to go retrograde on Sunday, July 7th. 
Rather than dread, let’s bring curiosity to this extraordinary cosmic light show and wonder what we can do with this energy. Maybe even imagine that these shadows have the potential to give us a place to rest from the fast and furious energy that has been pushing hard at us for most of 2019. An eclipse, after all, is a quiet, elegant and slow process that pulls our attention toward the quieter, more elegant and slower possibilities for our soul’s evolution.
Watchword: Be careful . . . as this combination of eclipsed emotion-generating Cancer with the retrograde-shadowed Mercury brain can offer a new level of emotional mindfulness  or  it can lead to emotional bombs tossed about due to a lack of awareness of what’s generating these emotions and of how they’re being used to manipulate—a potentially old habit looking for some rehab.
As much as I believe that nearly everyone I know is taking the high road through all the challenges the Universe has been generating, here are some tips from the eclipsed moon, pulling no punches and asking us to take on some rather exacting examinations of our behavior, even if some of the following occur only very rarely.
Simply put:
This eclipsed moon hopes we’ll seek out the more shadowy emotional reactors capable of lurching at or from us unexpectedly. When Cancer is muddy—eclipsed—it can stumble like this:
(So many emotional land mines. Yikes.)
* Continuing to refuse to allow a feeling to be conscious because the mind senses that if we do, chaos will ensue. In truth, the chaos is already in play beneath the surface where the emotion is stewing.
* Using emotions as a weapon: Lots of tears coupled with accusations that someone else has hurt us.
* Failing to notice emotional patterns still causing one to feel stuck in a puddle of sadness or despair or loss when it might be time to wade to higher ground, to wonder if the emotion itself has become a comfort zone.
* Forgetting how to let the emotion wash one clean so that the weather pattern can lift and allow for clarity around what brought on the deluge of feeling. Nothing wrong with feeling things deeply as long as we don’t get attached to the feeling of being downtrodden, an excuse to stay small.
* Using emotions passive-aggressively to try to make someone else feel small or less powerful.
* Telling yourself that you don’t have a right to that feeling. You have a right to all your feelings. But what to do with them? Read on.
And more complicated still:
 
An emotion rises.
   * The reaction would be to lob the feeling at someone else; make it their fault you feel abandoned or maligned.
   * The response would be to stop a minute and examine the feeling with your quiet mind so that you begin to understand the emotion’s origin and, following that, slowly begin anew to understand how to respond to this feeling rising in you. From that place of clarity, you can decide to move away from the thing that is causing you emotional discomfort or pain. You don’t have to blame another as much as use your intuition to feel where you are safe and where you might steer clear. The thing is to handle these feelings without dragging another into your emotional work. It’s all yours. You could be in a room with an entire family of people acting out and, still, you always have a choice as to how you want to process your feelings; do you want to respond or react? Sometimes the response is as simple as backing away, no matter how much sludge might still be in the air.
In all honesty, the fact that Mercury has spent the last two weeks traveling through its own shadow as it prepares to go retrograde, adds a high bar to the energy of this eclipsed moon in Cancer. Mercury helps us find the words we need to express ourselves. So as the moon takes us on a magical mystery tour through emotional rides, our deeper voice (Mercury) is seeking a way to inform the blathering Monkey Mind.
To be absolutely redundant: We need to be vigilant for renegade emotions seeking to undermine our verbal and written messages to others—and to ourselves. This combination of shadows could, on occasion, mislead our conscious mind into the mud of emotional weariness or buried anger or, even, have us defaulting to old habits of getting what we want by using emotion to hit someone over the head, metaphorically speaking.
Watery Cancer is a cardinal sign. Astro babble, I know. It is energy that thrives on beginning anew. It likes to nudge things into motion. So if we find ourselves hesitating to honor emotions, or using emotions as a wedge or an excuse, we are holding our forward movement in check.
The Universal voices are working to elevate us but we are moving through a time of tremendous flux and a seeming wilderness of ideas. If you’d like to explore how all this cosmic weather is affecting you personally, please send me a note. It may be time for you to check in with a transit reading, or dive into a relationship, or have your goddess chart or your cartography chart read. Awareness helps us through the knots of confusion.
 
And if you’d like to help support the creation of these notes, your contribution is gratefully accepted here:
Emotions are tricky. The most potent message from this week’s eclipsed moon is this one: please remember to own your responses without asking anyone else to fix your heart for you. You are your own pilot through this wild landscape of human time. And you are far more powerful than you could imagine.
By: Ascension Lifestyle Guest Contributor
Deborah O’conner

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Be humble, for you are made of earth. Be noble, for you are made of stars.

 


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