Twin flames serve a divine purpose. They come into your life just when you believe that you will never experience the deep, perfect love that your soul craves. They shake up everything you knew about reality and expand your consciousness while sending your chakras into overdrive. They are your direct mirror, your polar opposite, your exact energetic vibrational match. Twin flames incarnate on the planet at the same time and plan to meet in order to catalyze each other into accelerated spiritual awakening so that both can find and pursue their life missions. They are forced to face their deepest fears for the purpose of releasing them for good and learning to live from a space of unconditional love at all times.
Although tragic, it is necessary for many twins to separate after the initial illumination period fades. After experiencing life on a new energetic level, where universal love flows through you and manifestation occurs at a rapid rate, the twins come back down to earth and find that they still have much internal work to do. The ego returns and begins to question all that it had been conditioned to believe over many lifetimes. The soul is faced with the challenge of releasing any and all emotional, mental, and physical blocks in order to connect deeply with its Higher Self and the Divine. This process takes time and the twins must complete this deep healing on their own, each at their own pace. Attempts to force a physical relationship at this time will be met with resistance and more distance. It is key to focus the energy that was once given to the twin relationship, back on to your own personal spiritual path, because the truth is, your twin did not come into your life to complete you, but rather to catapult you into the best version of yourself.
The physical separation that is experienced is simply caused by the two people not being energetically capable of sustaining a connection of that magnitude. Maybe not forever, but in the present moment, they are not with you because the physical, mental, and emotional bodies are not matching up. The intense anguish felt during this time is designed to bring out all of the insecurities, doubts, and fears that you have been holding deep within your subconscious mind. The twin simply reflects all of the lower vibrational states that you must finally rid yourself of in order to become a fully enlightened and liberated human being. They are doing the same thing at their own rate, which is completely un-related to your own soul progress and should be respected from a distance.
Many people become obsessed with the the twin flame concept and union. They believe that if they just wait patiently while continuously holding the other person in their heart and mind, by trying to connect with them on other levels, by focusing strongly on the reunion, that they will eventually come back. This is just an illusion. Your soul wants to come back to its truest essence. It wants to release all of the fears and illusions that keep it imprisoned and distracted from its life mission. That is why your twin flame appeared in your life, to remind you who you really are and why you chose to incarnate on this planet at this crucial time. It takes incredible amounts of strength to sit with yourself fully in the present and realize that you are limiting your own growth by holding onto the past while trying to plan out the future. The best thing to do is to hold love for your twin flame, but still focus solely on yourself.
It’s important to understand that this God-sent encounter was never about the other person. It was always about sparking direct communication with the Divine in order to become One with all that is. It teaches you to stop relying on the external world to validate your existence and to find peace within each and every moment. Twin flames act as a catalyst to increase your spiritual capacity and to engage in a higher standard of living and loving. Meeting this person is the fast track to enlightenment… if viewed from the right perspective.
The ego mind is known for seeking control over situations. It will try to conceptualize and analyze the connection to no end. However, once you step back and realize the truth, you find that you must take back your power and let your heart guide you. Instead of focusing on the twin flame label and concept, we must instead focus on our -mission- on earth.
We must shift our thinking and accept the fact that no matter how strong the connection is, we attracted our twin back to us for self-growth and self-actualization. We are limiting and sabotaging ourselves if we do not come to terms with this and continue on a hamster wheel of emotions, waiting for the day they return. What we need to come back to is ourselves, our true selves. That’s when everything falls into place and we allow the universe to bring our divine love back to us.
By: Ascension Lifestyle Guest Contributor