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11 Mar 2024
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38 Wonderful Words With No English Equivalent

 

Sometimes we must turn to other languages to find le mot juste. Here are a whole bunch of foreign words with no direct English equivalent.

 

  • Kummerspeck (German)
    Excess weight gained from emotional overeating. Literally, grief bacon.

 

  • Shemomedjamo (Georgian)
    You know when you’re really full, but your meal is just so delicious, you can’t stop eating it? The Georgians feel your pain. This word means, “I accidentally ate the whole thing.”

 

  • Tartle (Scots)
    The nearly onomatopoeic word for that panicky hesitation just before you have to introduce someone whose name you can’t quite remember.

 

  • Mamihlapinatapai (Yaghan language of Tierra del Fuego)
    This word captures that special look shared between two people, when both are wishing that the other would do something that they both want, but neither want to do.

 

  • Backpfeifengesicht (German)
    A face badly in need of a fist.

 

  • Iktsuarpok (Inuit)
    You know that feeling of anticipation when you’re waiting for someone to show up at your house and you keep going outside to see if they’re there yet? This is the word for it.

 

  • Pelinti (Buli, Ghana)
    Your friend bites into a piece of piping hot pizza, then opens his mouth and sort of tilts his head around while making an “aaaarrrahh” noise. The Ghanaians have a word for that. More specifically, it means “to move hot food around in your mouth.”

 

  • Greng-jai (Thai)
    That feeling you get when you don’t want someone to do something for you because it would be a pain for them.

 

  • Mencolek (Indonesian)
    You know that old trick where you tap someone lightly on the opposite shoulder from behind to fool them? The Indonesians have a word for it.

 

  • Faamiti (Samoan)
    To make a squeaking sound by sucking air past the lips in order to gain the attention of a dog or child.

 

  • Gigil (Filipino)
    The urge to pinch or squeeze something that is irresistibly cute.

 

  • Yuputka (Ulwa)
    A word made for walking in the woods at night, it’s the phantom sensation of something crawling on your skin.

 

  • Zhaghzhagh (Persian)
    The chattering of teeth from the cold or from rage.

 

  • Vybafnout (Czech)
    A word tailor-made for annoying older brothers—it means to jump out and say boo.

 

  • Fremdschämen (German); Myötähäpeä (Finnish)
    The kinder, gentler cousins of Schadenfreude, both these words mean something akin to “vicarious embarrassment.”

 

  • Lagom (Swedish)
    Maybe Goldilocks was Swedish? This slippery little word is hard to define, but means something like, “Not too much, and not too little, but juuuuust right.”

 

  • Pålegg (Norwegian)
    Sandwich Artists unite! The Norwegians have a non-specific descriptor for anything – ham, cheese, jam, Nutella, mustard, herring, pickles, Doritos, you name it – you might consider putting into a sandwich.

 

  • Layogenic (Tagalog)
    Remember inCluelesswhen Cher describes someone as “a full-on Monet … from far away, it’s OK, but up close it’s a big old mess”? That’s exactly what this word means.

 

  • Bakku-shan (Japanese)
    Or there’s this Japanese slang term, which describes the experience of seeing a woman who appears pretty from behind but not from the front.

 

  • Seigneur-terraces (French)
    Coffee shop dwellers who sit at tables a long time but spend little money.

 

  • Ya’arburnee (Arabic)
    This word is the hopeful declaration that you will die before someone you love deeply, because you cannot stand to live without them. Literally, may you bury me.

 

  • Pana Po’o (Hawaiian)
    “Hmm, now where did I leave those keys?” he said, pana po’oing. It means to scratch your head in order to help you remember something you’ve forgotten.

 

  • Slampadato (Italian)
    Addicted to the UV glow of tanning salons? This word describes you.

 

  • Zeg (Georgian)
    It means “the day after tomorrow.” OK, we do have “overmorrow” in English, but when was the last time someone used that?

 

  • Cafune (Brazilian Portuguese)
    Leave it to the Brazilians to come up with a word for “tenderly running your fingers through your lover’s hair.”

 

  • Koi No Yokan (Japanese)
    The sense upon first meeting a person that the two of you are going to fall in love.

 

  • Kaelling (Danish)
    You know that woman who stands on her doorstep (or in line at the supermarket, or at the park, or in a restaurant) cursing at her children? The Danes know her, too.

 

  • Boketto (Japanese)
    It’s nice to know that the Japanese think enough of the act of gazing vacantly into the distance without thinking to give it a name.

 

  • L’esprit de l’escalier (French)
    Literally, stairwell wit—a too-late retort thought of only after departure.

 

  • Cotisuelto (Caribbean Spanish)
    A word that would aptly describe the prevailing fashion trend among American men under 40, it means one who wears the shirt tail outside of his trousers.

 

  • Packesel (German)
    The packesel is the person who’s stuck carrying everyone else’s bags on a trip. Literally, a burro.

 

  • Hygge (Danish)
    Denmark’s mantra, hygge is the pleasant, genial, and intimate feeling associated with sitting around a fire in the winter with close friends.

 

  • Cavoli Riscaldati (Italian)
    The result of attempting to revive an unworkable relationship. Translates to “reheated cabbage.”

 

  • Bilita Mpash (Bantu)
    An amazing dream. Not just a “good” dream; the opposite of a nightmare.

 

  • Litost (Czech)
    Milan Kundera described the emotion as “a state of torment created by the sudden sight of one’s own misery.”

 

  • Luftmensch (Yiddish)
    There are several Yiddish words to describe social misfits. This one is for an impractical dreamer with no business sense.

 

  • 37 & 38. Schlemiel and schlimazel (Yiddish)
    Someone prone to bad luck. Yiddish distinguishes between the schlemiel and schlimazel, whose fates would probably be grouped under those of the klutz in other languages. The schlemiel is the traditional maladroit, who spills his coffee; the schlimazel is the one on whom it’s spilled.

 

 

 

 

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09 Mar 2024
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What You Need to Know About Off-Gassing 

 

The client wasn’t super-wealthy, but she was thoughtful about her home and hands down the most eco-conscious woman Colorado interior designer Megan Thompson had ever met. The 30-something vegan was asking for Thompson’s help with two flooring projects: She wanted wall-to-wall carpeting upstairs in and around her family’s bedrooms, and she was looking to turn a small area downstairs into a yoga/meditation room, preferably with easy-to-clean, budget-friendly, wood-mimicking vinyl.

Carpet and vinyl. Thompson, who recently made a personal pledge that at least 80% percent of her projects will be 100% environmentally sustainable, saw this as a teaching moment.

“Okay, I want to tell you about some things,” she recalls telling her client, going on to carefully explain the dangers inherent in both flooring choices—primarily the health impacts of chemical inhalants. Not only would these chemicals flood a home during the installation of new carpet or vinyl planks, but they would continue to gradually leach into the air for years to come—a more subtle (but dangerous) process referred to as off-gassing. Thompson didn’t want her client’s family exposed to a vapor stew of chemicals every day, least of all in the yoga space, where the whole point was to breathe deeply while near the floor.

She offered her client some carefully sourced options such as an all-wool carpet with a natural rubber pad, and advocated for solid, sustainably sourced wood downstairs instead of a composite of plastics. “I thought she’d be excited,” Thompson says. “But because of her beliefs about animal rights, I learned that wool wasn’t acceptable to her…and there were price point issues too. I thought, ‘Wow, this is a whole new level I hadn’t encountered.’”

Welcome to what materials experts call “one of the most complicated issues in health and wellness,” the murky and unregulated (at least in the U.S.—Europe is much stricter) relationships humans have with thousands of airborne toxins emanating from our building materials, furnishings, cleaning products, car interiors, iPads, and even candles.

“Nobody’s telling you what is coming from all those vapors mixing in the air,” says Jillian Pritchard Cooke, the founder of Wellness Within Your Walls, an education consultancy focused on dramatically reducing the dangers of off-gassing in the built environment. “It’s up to us to understand the individual effects each chemical can have on your nervous system, your lungs, and your cellular makeup. We need to be doing right by our clients.”

Designers have, of course, been aware of the dangers of volatile organic compounds (VOCs) for a long time, and have helped influence some wins in the marketplace, like the rising popularity of low- or no-VOC paints and the 2015 ban Home Depot and Lowe’s instituted in 2015 on toxic phthalates (a class of industrial chemicals that help make plastic bendy) in flooring.

But the problem endures, and unfortunately, many of the worst effects of VOCs—showing up in health conditions—accumulate over long periods of time.

According to Susan Inglis, executive director of the Sustainable Furnishings Council, a coalition of industry professionals dedicated to safer, greener home furnishings, “We’re learning more now and the news is discouraging—harmful chemicals are persistent and linked directly to health problems, and we can keep using them forever! The chemical lobby is very powerful in this country and they don’t want to be regulated, that’s why. It’s just plain up to us.

So, how do you get a handle on what’s happening here, and what are the best strategies to reduce emissions that can trigger asthma, cognitive impairment, or worse? We asked that question of professional air quality assessors, experienced sustainability managers, and green-minded designers around the country, collecting their current wisdom on tools, measurement techniques, and simple tactics that can protect clients from invisible airborne poisons.

So what is off-gassing, anyway? Super simply, it’s the airborne release of a chemical, a chemical in vapor form. Whenever you smell a product, it’s off-gassing. It happens the most when a product is new. Fresh paint odor? Off-gassing. New memory-foam smell? Off-gassing. But many products or materials continue off-gassing even after the “new smell” has gone away—the fumes are just much more subtle.

What are the dangers? Chemical companies will tell you that everything off-gasses, that pineapples and roses are off-gassing. But of course, some fumes are more toxic than others, and the chemicals from plastics and adhesives tend to be the worst. Prolonged exposure can cause headaches, respiratory illnesses, hormone disruption, and a variety of cancers. Here’s a list of the worst offenders and their potential impacts.

There have been cases where toxic chemicals became so infiltrated in a building’s walls, floors, and HVAC system that a simple “airing out” couldn’t fix it. Severe air quality problems shut down an Illinois driver’s license center in 2015. Sick Building Syndrome is less common now, but airtight structures (think tall glass towers) are at higher risk than buildings with operable windows.

Who is at risk? All of us, but especially babies and school-age children, whose physiological systems are still in development. Adults with weak immune systems or respiratory problems often exhibit stronger responses to off-gassing. And any living creature who spends a lot of time near the floor (where flooring and carpets—in addition to their backings or adhesives—off-gas) is at higher risk, especially babies, toddlers, and household pets.

How do I know if the products I source off-gas? Contaminant-wary designers like Thompson in Denver and Jennifer Jones of Niche Interiors in San Francisco have spent years compiling their own personal spreadsheets of safer products (especially nontoxic adhesives and stain treatments) and vendors (especially installers) who share their off-gassing concerns. Luckily now, industry-wide databases are evolving to help. One of the most promising is Mindful Materials, a constantly updated, searchable library of more than 10,000 products with verified labeling information. It’s a nice companion to product and strategy advice at certification bodies such as GreenGuard, WELL, and the Living Building Challenge.

New products I understand, but what about antiques or vintage items? One of the best arguments for incorporating vintage pieces in design, apart from saving space in landfills and decreasing carbon emissions, is that they are far safer from an off-gassing perspective. Recycling building materials (for instance, saving the doors during a retrofit) helps too.

How do I know if my project is safe? Ravi Bajaj is a project manager at Healthy Buildings, a diagnostics firm that conducts two general kinds of air-quality tests: the chamber test (when you place an item—say, a whole couch or a laptop—in a sealed lab chamber and collect off-gassing data over hours, days, or weeks) and on-site evaluations (involving physical checks on things like air filters as well as professional air sampling over time). Most of his clients are commercial real estate firms collecting air-quality data to protect themselves from lawsuits, but knowing what he knows, Bajaj would like that to change. “Schools and homes are where we’d love to see more work done,” says Bajaj.

It’s often just a money issue: Professional assessments can cost between $2,000 and $3,000 annually.

That is expensive. Is there a low-cost option? Michelle Amt, sustainability director at VMDO architects in Charlottesville, Virginia (a firm specializing in the safe design of schools), recommends a variety of devices that can at least serve as a first sniff test, detecting any major problems in VOCs, CO2 levels, etc. She uses AWAIR monitors (tagline: “See the Invisible”) that come with an app so she can remotely collect data on her phone. Foobot and Kaiterra offer consumer-grade air sensors as well.

Bajaj and Amt warn that once you begin measuring, you may be shocked…or confused. Amt once saw VOC levels skyrocket one morning in a university classroom and found out later that someone had simply uncapped a whiteboard marker. Even fragrant body spray can activate some detectors. But they say that if you measure consistently over time, you’ll start seeing trends, good or bad.

What can I do about off-gassing going forward? Preventing toxic inhalants from entering a home, school, or office space in the first place is perhaps the first and most important off-gassing strategy for designers today. VOCs plummet when you are using solid wood instead of composite furniture, sourcing fabrics without chemical stain repellents, and making it a practice to add recycled or vintage pieces (which off-gassed long ago) to a design plan.

Jillian Pritchard Cooke suggests that designers plan ahead to slow down installs so that each new building material or piece of decor has time to shed its early fumes before occupants move in. She advocates for designers to use a warehouse or a well-ventilated porch/garage to off-gas individual items, thereby preventing a complicated mix of chemicals in the air. And she encourages interior designers to take an advisory role, encouraging clients and architects to make sure each space has plenty of fresh air intake and circulation, which can be challenging in this age of tightly sealed, energy-efficient offices and condos.

Consistently asking vendors for their most low-VOC, PVC-free product options (you’ll find innovations now in traditionally PVC-heavy products, like roller shades) is another effective strategy, according to Inglis. She’s seen the marketplace shift dramatically just because designers—even the smallest businesses—kept up the pressure on manufacturers when the government wouldn’t. All this serves to widen the scope of change even more. Amt says that when designers refuse to purchase toxic materials, the supply chain adjusts all the way back to the source, and can even help to alter dangerous factory conditions for workers outside the U.S.

“There is equity and social justice in play here too,” says Amt. “We have a voice, and industry is listening. So what will we do with it?”

 

 

 

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05 Mar 2024
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How to Live In Less Fear

Have you been feeling more fearful lately? Between a lingering pandemic, news of global warming, divisive politics, and beyond, there are plenty of things that spark fear in us these days. And while it doesn’t sound “cool” to admit that, yes, you’ve probably been afraid of something over the past few years, experts stress that fear is a perfectly normal emotion — and one that is even helpful in some situations.

“Our threat response is responsible for keeping us and all species alive,” explains Margee Kerr, a University of Pittsburgh sociologist who studies fear. And sometimes fear can even be a little fun. Kerr has found that activities like riding a roller coaster have benefits. “My colleague and I found that those who chose to go through a haunted house experienced an improvement in mood, which was related to experiencing the attraction as more thrilling, scary, and intense,” she says. And people who challenge fears, like jumping out of a plane when petrified of heights, are likely to feel better about themselves afterward.

It’s normal to turn on the news and get a little revved up. Or to have a conversation about a current event elicit a fear response. But when fear becomes constant, it may be doing more harm than good. “When fear and worry get stuck in the ‘on’ position, it can lead to chronic stress that can affect sleep, weight gain/loss, your immune system, and potentially lead to heart disease,” warns Andrea Dindinger, a licensed marriage and family therapist in San Francisco.

Here are some expert-backed tips on how to live with less fear.

Recognize how your fear is holding you back 

“You cannot hang on to the darkness of today if you want to embrace a brighter tomorrow,” says Dr. Cindy Trimm, the author of The Rules of Engagement for Overcoming Your Past: Breaking Free From Guilt, Rejection, Abuse, and Betrayal. The problem with fear, she says, is that it makes you stay in place. “We hide out at home when we should be reaching out and embracing new experiences. We stay in bad relationships when we should be moving on to better ones. We make other people a priority when they have made us an option,” explains Trimm.

Talk it out

“None of us are meant to do it all by ourselves,” says Paul Conti, MD, the author of Trauma: The Invisible Epidemic: How Trauma Works and How We Can Heal From It. “When fear begins to take its toll, reach out to family members, friends, and any mental-health care services or other organizations in your community that you trust.”

Just like therapists who specialize in marriage and family therapy, there are experts who can help you tackle fears, phobias, PTSD, and other anxieties. “Treatment modalities include everything from cognitive behavioral therapy to a variety of medications, exposure therapy, and lifestyle adjustments,” says Kerr.

Reduce your exposure

“It’s easy to stoke the fires of fear; it’s a lot harder to put them out when they’re raging,” says Conti. Know your limits when it comes to media exposure, stressful conversations, and negative thought patterns. And don’t be afraid to set boundaries for yourself and with others. If you have a friend who only wants to talk about the pandemic, and you feel yourself needing a breather, be honest. Ask if she wouldn’t mind changing the subject to something more uplifting instead, like the latest show you both watched.

Be curious

Take small steps toward facing your fears. “Continuing to find ways to challenge oneself that involve pushing boundaries can help a person learn about themselves and gain a sense of confidence in their abilities (physical and mental), which in turn can work toward improving skills of resilience,” Kerr explains. And that resilience can help you become better equipped to cope with turbulent times. So, if you’re afraid of dogs, don’t force yourself to run up and pet one. But maybe try stepping into a park where a dog is a mile away, on a leash, and sit with that feeling. Move up from there.

Have compassion for yourself

Nicole Catenazzi, a life coach and the creator of the Fearless Heart Method for Living Bravely, challenges people to examine their fears with compassion. Ask yourself questions like “What is this fear protecting me from?” and “What is this fear preventing me from?” “This can help you decipher whether your fear serves you or constrains you,” she explains. Once you understand fear’s effects, you may become more apt to challenge it. And go easy on yourself. Everyone deals with fear in some capacity — from humans to chimpanzees and even insects!

Focus on what you can control; surrender to what you can’t

While you can’t control everything, Dr. Therese Rosenblatt, a psychologist in private practice in New York, says there are steps you can take to mitigate parts of your fears. “Say you have a fear of Covid. What you can do with that fear is to face it long enough to make a plan to do whatever we can to minimize the risk of contracting it and to minimize the severity if you do get ill,” she said. Thus, she challenges people to direct their energies to things they can control, like getting a vaccine, following mask guidelines, eating and sleeping well, and avoiding large crowds. “Beyond that, we must accept the parts we cannot control, to live one day at a time, and to be present in the moment,” she said.

Identify the difference between real fear and perceived fear

Real fear, says Shirin Eskandani, a Brooklyn-based life coach, is the type of fear we have before going down a dark alley. Perceived fear, on the other hand, is what we most often experience day to day with our worries about the future and stresses in our lives. “A great way to figure out which is which is to get clear on what each fear feels like in your body, and what thoughts you have when you’re in the two different states,” she explains.

Try breathing in on a count of four and taking a four-count breath out. “This allows us to create a little bit of space between our worry and reality so you can figure out whether what you’re scared of is real or perceived — because so often at the mere sign of fear, we go into fight, flight, freeze, or faint,” Eskandani adds.

Put your fear on trial

When you feel afraid, tune in to what you’re thinking. Examine those thoughts and, as Jose Ramirez, a licensed mental-health counselor in Fort Lauderdale, suggests, put them on trial. “Look at the evidence to determine whether there is some truth to them or if it’s mainly unhelpful thinking,” he suggests. If the fear is rooted in truth, then there may be something you can do to improve them. But if you realize it’s just unhelpful thinking, Ramirez says this awareness can help quiet them down.

Practice grounding yourself

If you’re hit with an overwhelming surge of fear, do something to ground yourself. “Often taught to people who experience PTSD or dissociation, grounding can help you snap out of your head and into your body,” says Ramirez. Try this simple technique: Use your senses. Notice a few things you can see, taste, hear, feel, and smell. Really dive deep, and let the things you are noticing take over. “This will bring your awareness to your body and your physical surroundings and help you get out of your head a bit,” Ramirez explains.

 

 

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01 Mar 2024
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March Artist of the Month: Romy Limenes

 

About the Artist:

Romy’s affinity for photography began early, inspired by the dramatic coastline of her hometown of Mendocino. Enrolling in a basic black and white photography class during high school unveiled her passion further as she experienced, both behind the lens as well as in the confines of the dimly lit darkroom, a profound sense of joy unlike anything she had ever experienced. Nonetheless photography took a sideline to her first chosen profession of nursing and healthcare for the last two decades, all the while remaining a persistent yet unanswered call.

In 2022, a significant event altered Romy’s trajectory when she became a victim of drug assault in her hometown. This experience illuminated the urgent need for education and systemic reform surrounding this pervasive yet often overlooked crime. Romy is dedicated to transforming her own journey as a survivor into a catalyst for positive change, leveraging her voice to advocate for awareness and reform. She is currently in the nascent stages of establishing Expose This Crime, an organization aimed at shedding light on drug assault and advocating for transformative change.

Concurrently, Romy’s photography project, Soulscape Images, emerged during this tumultuous period, serving as a source of strength, expression, and healing. Her robust portfolio, aptly titled “Soulscapes,” is a testament to her personal journey of turning pain into creativity.

For the first time, Romy is making her Soulscapes available to the public, envisioning them as large-scale canvas prints for wall hangings, with. 33% of the profits going to support her sister project and passion, Expose This Crime. This initiative will fund the launch of a podcast platform, providing a space for survivors to share their stories and voices, amplifying awareness and fostering healing and much needed change.

Romy Limenes; www.soulscapeimage.com

Instagram: soulscapeimages

romylimenes@gmail.com

 

 

 

 


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